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Lee and Tami have been married for 22 years. We have two daughters the old fashion way, Savannah is our oldest daughter, she is 23. Alyx, our second daughter is 17. And we have five children via God's gift of adoption, Graci, who came home from China to join our family in 2007, is 7, and Dax, who came home from Guatemala in 2007 to join our family, is 6. Thad and Kamby joined our family in Dec. 2009 from Ethiopia. They are both 4 years old. Susi, our latest addition, came home from China(Aug. 2011) is 6 years old.Now we are on our way back to China to bring home our precious 3 year old son, JJ.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Ethiopia Part 2

The platters of food at the restaurant that Lee and Alyx went out to.


As if traffic and people were not enough to deal with we had contend with people selling goats down the middle of the roads. Little boys would herd goats across traffic at all hours of the day. A pave alley way down the way from he market we went to. Most are not paved but very rough dirt roads. Again, I called it an alley way because that is what it looks like but it is actually just a road.
Tire shop this is the Big O of Addis Ababa.


The tin shed that the guard who opens the gate gets to sleep in. This is inside the gate to the lawyer's office.
Gate to the lawyer's office.

Lee was amazed at the construction going on. If look closely you will see the scaffolding is curved wood tied together. Woman as well as men work on these and they are on almost all construction.
Our travel group, the Busic and Hallock families. We all had lunch and dinner together almost every day.
Some one's home. The homes ranged from this to apartments to the occasional nice private residence behind a steel gate. They all were right next to each other there is not separate parts of town, at least not what we saw.
Like I said we visited the babies each day and then we would do adoption business and a little sightseeing when we were not with them. The hotel (guest house) we stayed at was very nice but humble. At first we found it charming and then found it a little rugged. We really longed for a shower that had some water pressure other than gravity and that did not scald you and then freeze you in the same second. Lee kept saying "at least we have a shower" so we tried to look on the bright side. Since I was so extremely taxed from the travel, the emotion of the meeting the babies, and from being in Ethiopia I slept great at night and slept long. Lee on the other hand did not. He usually does not require much sleep and with the time difference he was up wandering around at all hours of the night. But since the hotel is locked up inside the steel gate at night and you are not allowed out he was pretty bored. He spent a lot of time playing solitaire by candle light. Poor Alyx could never get on the right time. She was up in the middle of the night every night, wide awake and bored to death. With no TV, computer, or even accessible electricity it made for quite long nights for those that did not sleep. We were fed quite well at the hotel, all meals were prepared for us. They were European food not Ethiopian dishes. For breakfast every day all we got was toast. Except one day we got eggs with our toast and another day we got toast and french toast. We laughed a lot! I learned very early on to stay away from all meat and anything with a questionable sauce. Lee and Alyx ate everything though. Lee made it the whole trip with out even indigestion, Alyx did not. The day we were to leave Alyx spent the night on the bathroom floor with severe food poisoning. When one of our guides came by to check on us she told Alyx, "well, now you can say, I have been to Africa". Alyx did not think it was amusing. Praise God she got it all out and was able to travel home with out being sick. Lee and Alyx went to an Ethiopian restaurant one night with one of the other families in our travel group. They really enjoyed the food and the entertainment. The husband from the other family was violently ill the entire next day. He had the lamb or as the guide said "maybe it was a goat who ate a bad leaf". Again no one was laughing. I opted out of dinner due to fear of getting sick and great fatigue. It was really hard to get around in Addis. The traffic and smog is horrible. I had a constant sinus headache. There are no traffic laws and it was absolutely insane the way the people drive. I was so tense, especially when we had the babies with us (of course car seats are unheard of, we didn't even have seat belts). I was always sure this car trip would be our last. When we were not fearing for our lives driving, we were sitting still while beggars and people surround our car trying to get our attention. Since it was so hot we had to have the windows down. People would surround us asking for money. We tried to give it out but the need was so great. People would mob and just keep coming if we showed any sign of helping and if we were sitting in traffic too long it became very difficult to manage. Every one that we had a personal encounter with was very nice and friendly. As I mentioned we were not prepared for we what experienced so we looked completely awe struck most the time. I will continue more late but I need to get some rest now. My baby boy wakes between 4-5 am and is ready for the day. He goes to bed between 6-7 pm but I don't get there until later. He and Kamby both get up to eat every 3 hours. As soon as everyone is well we will teach them the Brady method of sleeping.

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